Went to Singapore last weekend. The BF wanted to visit his family in hope of getting some pocket money for our Bangkok trip next week. Yea, we are going to Bangkok next week..yay!
It was a mad rush for the whole week as I had to complete preparations for 3 projects due the following week in order to make time for this trip. And with all clients, they always leave things till the last minute. Many late nights were involved but nevertheless managed to complete most of the work for the trip.
We took a bus. It was my first time and Puduraya is one scary place. Let's just say its not a place I would like to be in again...if possible.
Anyway, we arrived on Friday evening...had dinner and did a little shopping. Since we were staying with respective family members, we decided to head "home" early to spend some time with them. Our usual practise was to sms each other once we reach home...just to let each other know we got home ok. It was 8.30pm when I got to my sister's place and I sms-ed him. It was 11.00pm before I got his. By then, I was very angry.
When he called and I asked him where he went, he told me he went for drinks with a guy he met before, to "settle" things with him as the guy is interested in him and has been pursuing him. Why did he not just tell me?? Instead of leaving me in the dark about where he went. When we started going out, I made it clear he can go out with any of his friends. I am not one to control my BF's movements.
To cut a very long story short, I did a lot of shouting that night and I guess it was not just that night but from the months of keeping it all in. Everything about how I felt just came out in that one night. At that point of time, I was certain I wanted out. I was hurt and disappointed.
I didn't sleep much that night. I was thinking of what to do. And I finally decided to forgive and forget. Afterall, we are all human and we do make mistakes. The important thing is to learn and not repeat the mistake. Everyone deserves a second chance...agreed?
We met the next morning and I told him about my decision. But not before drilling into him how sad and disappointed I was. Tears were streaming down his face and I was getting a little uncomfortable as we were in Starbucks!! People around us must be wondering what was going on.
This is a moment which I will remember for a very long time...we went for lunch after Starbucks. When my meal arrived, I cut some of egg from my meal and put it on his plate. When I looked up, his eyes were filled with tears. He looked at me and whispered.."you so good to me, even after what I have done..I love you".
We are now home in KL. And after this trip, he tells me more than before. Who calls, who he goes out with and where, who sms-es him and etc. Definitely a better sense of security for me.
Was it a good trip? I think it was...don't you? :-)
It was a mad rush for the whole week as I had to complete preparations for 3 projects due the following week in order to make time for this trip. And with all clients, they always leave things till the last minute. Many late nights were involved but nevertheless managed to complete most of the work for the trip.
We took a bus. It was my first time and Puduraya is one scary place. Let's just say its not a place I would like to be in again...if possible.
Anyway, we arrived on Friday evening...had dinner and did a little shopping. Since we were staying with respective family members, we decided to head "home" early to spend some time with them. Our usual practise was to sms each other once we reach home...just to let each other know we got home ok. It was 8.30pm when I got to my sister's place and I sms-ed him. It was 11.00pm before I got his. By then, I was very angry.
When he called and I asked him where he went, he told me he went for drinks with a guy he met before, to "settle" things with him as the guy is interested in him and has been pursuing him. Why did he not just tell me?? Instead of leaving me in the dark about where he went. When we started going out, I made it clear he can go out with any of his friends. I am not one to control my BF's movements.
To cut a very long story short, I did a lot of shouting that night and I guess it was not just that night but from the months of keeping it all in. Everything about how I felt just came out in that one night. At that point of time, I was certain I wanted out. I was hurt and disappointed.
I didn't sleep much that night. I was thinking of what to do. And I finally decided to forgive and forget. Afterall, we are all human and we do make mistakes. The important thing is to learn and not repeat the mistake. Everyone deserves a second chance...agreed?
We met the next morning and I told him about my decision. But not before drilling into him how sad and disappointed I was. Tears were streaming down his face and I was getting a little uncomfortable as we were in Starbucks!! People around us must be wondering what was going on.
This is a moment which I will remember for a very long time...we went for lunch after Starbucks. When my meal arrived, I cut some of egg from my meal and put it on his plate. When I looked up, his eyes were filled with tears. He looked at me and whispered.."you so good to me, even after what I have done..I love you".
We are now home in KL. And after this trip, he tells me more than before. Who calls, who he goes out with and where, who sms-es him and etc. Definitely a better sense of security for me.
Was it a good trip? I think it was...don't you? :-)
